 shame
shame on you people and to think that just because ricndi offers a little bit of the why's a cpl shouldn't be obsessing on this matter and that there are certain risks to even approching your other half, you damn her to hell, that's not fair, and sorry but she does have a point, if one half of the cpl is against it, then the matter should be dropped, not forced and cohourced into doing to please the other half, and truth be told, I had been reading quite a few of these posts on the how to's and have decided that perhaps there is a danger in wanting something like this, and if the thought disgusts my wife the way I think it will, I'd rather stand up and be counted as a real man who can be happy with one woman and not be out to count the notches on the bedpost, cause if you all need this to be able to talk to your other halfs and have sex like mad, then this isn't for the normal people that like to be counted ammong that can say yes i have a monogmous marriage and I'm happy that way, and by the way, I love the hell out of my wife and feel down right ashamed that I could and would even think of this, or doing this to her, All I'd be doing is makeing her my whore and that she's not, thanks ric n di for at least having the balls to give a straight story on the real "what if's" and the real destruction this can cause, it's refreshing to heard someone that's not out promoting permissiable cheating.
signed,
just a guy in love. |