[Botcpl]

Shinjovial, the more you want something, the harder it is to get. Slow down and take your baby steps and let thoughts have the time they need. She feels uncomfortable about it so let her calm down before you bring it up again.

Waiting is.

If her friend was taken to a swingers club on a blind date, you might have some damage control you need to take care of. In my single days, I could never do that to someone I just met. Maybe after I got to know her some and knew she wouldn't mind, but what type of message was that guy sending?

My wife was all against all of this, but decided to go to a swing club to see how it was. We didn't play with anyone, but we liked all that was going on around us. Not that much sex, but a lot of sexuality. We were driving home she wanted to know when we were going back.

You can have fun without swapping. It's fun just watching people on the dance floor.