Personally, I think that at this point you've let her know your interest and your best bet is to leave it at that. Slow down to her pace and if it's going to come up again in conversation let her be the one to bring it up.
If she mentions it in relation to other people then ask her more about the situation and try to draw her out.
To me it sounds like she may still be really conflicted about the idea and perhaps bothered internally at the idea that she MIGHT like the idea. Until she comes to terms with it on her own she's not going to react well to talking to you about it.
Continue to be supportive and open with all things with her and if / when she decides that she wants to investigate the idea of swinging let her come to you.
Remember one of the key rules in swinging is to always move at the pace of the slowest person. And in the end, swinging is NOT for everyone and it may not be something you get to experience at all, and you have to come to terms with that and hopefully your wife/ relationship with her is more important than any fantasy. |