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Originally posted by bobandsandy
This may be unpopular to say but the fact that you even ask this question indicates to us that you have some work to do in the trust and communication departments before taking even the smallest step further.
Go slow - and have fun!
Bob (and Sandy) |
I don't think it is an unpopular thing to say, Bob (and Sandy), and if so, it shouldn't be. However, another thought as I made mention of in my first post is simply the realization that one's spouse/SO can be attractive to others. I think most of us get into that complacency thing in long-term relationships...not recognizing the tremendously good person we have beside us all the time. You know...kind of along the lines of the "grass is always greener" and suddenly you realize your yard has the greenest grass in the neighborhood!
Just a thought - EBF
