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Old 12-15-2003, 01:45 PM   #8 (permalink)
mrbandsatl
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...will she like these other guys in bed better than me? Will she start seeing them on the side? God forbid would something develop that she'd leave me over? Have we started something here that we're going to regret later?
Well, as usual, everyone is making good points.

While we agree these feelings are normal, they do indicate that you are not ready to swing.

IMHO, your second question bothers me the most:

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Will she start seeing them on the side?
This may be unpopular to say but the fact that you even ask this question indicates to us that you have some work to do in the trust and communication departments before taking even the smallest step further.

Go slow - and have fun!
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