I'm glad ya'll had such fun, Newgentry...and yeah, while it is probably best to spend some time on the rules and whatever...the spontaneous things are often the very best. Sort of removes what I call the "clinical" aspects of swinging.
Now from a single woman's perspective...I think your reactions and emotions the next day were probably about as normal as they get. Much of what you said was the same for me after my first experience...the difference being that I am single and didn't have anyone else to worry about...or to discuss it with.
Just go with the good feelings and enjoy them. Maybe that is one of the major benefits of swinging and what couples talk about all the time in terms of their increased communication and appreciation for each other...the recognition that their partner can be attractive to and attracted by others. Kind of takes us out of that complacency place we all find ourselves in from time to time.
Keep us posted on how things go! - EBF
