 you were bang on at the get go :)
From your first post here it was clear to us that you had reasonable doubts about this other couple and going further. Mr and I discussed your post and without any further information we surmised that you were right to call a halt to any more meetings......that couple don't play the way you two wish to. End of story. You were right. No need to second guess yourselves.
Often people have hidden agendas or different ideas about what constitutes 'swinging'. Doesn't make them right or wrong...just reinforces a need to get to know people, as you say, before considering getting intimate. |