 It's like building a fire
I don't think I have heard of anyone who brought up swinging to their wife the first time and she said, "Let's go for it!" That doesn't mean there aren't, but I don't think they are the majority. Usually I hear things like she said, "How can you even think about someone else?"
If you want to build a bonfire, you don't stack a bunch of logs in a field and throw matches at it, it won't light, unless you're using gasoline and that's dangerous. You start with a handful of dry leaves. (Honey, have you ever thought of...?) Then you put on a layer of small dried twigs. (Sometimes I think what it would be like to....) Then you get a pile of small branches. (Thinking of watching you..., makes me so hot!) Now you pile on the big logs and wait for her to set the match to it.
Don't be in such a hurry. Some people talk for years before anything happens and when it does, it happens in baby steps (usually).
You're thinking of the destination, you should be enjoying the journey.
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