I feel like I've tried every conceivable way to start the dialogue about swinging. It's gotten to the point that anytime I start to broach the subject or bring up a topic related to it or make a casual joke, etc, she puts up this protective field and turns her mind off to the idea.
I'm just having trouble coming to terms with this. I don't understand how anyone couldn't at least talk about it in an open manner. What's so bad about swinging? even if it's light swinging?
she's gotten to the point where she's said I should just experience it without her and forget the idea that she'll ever be convinced to swing. I would really rather swing with her present and not with strangers. Being a single male, especially when it's discoverd that you have a partner, is almost impossible to find a willing couple.
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