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Originally posted by Alura
First, let her read your post. |
I completely agree here. Obviously, the subject is something she may be uncomfortable with, but you are very passionate about, otherwise, you would not be asking for assistance.
Most people I know are into swinging, or at least sharing once... however, the few that I know that are strictly opposed to it always ask questions about it and realize that the ONLY reason that we CAN swing is because we love one another so much.
We're constantly told that we could be brother and sister because we look and act so much alike (I just don't see it)... but that's one of the perks of loving to that degree. Possibly, once she realizes that it's not about having sex with someone other than her, she'll open up a little bit about it to you and tell you her thoughts on it, rather than shutting the door immediately.