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chickster · 12-12-2003, 01:26 PM

Hi all!

Just subscribed to the board and I must say that there is a lot of useful information here.

My husband and I are interested in playing with others and are very new to this whole lifestyle. He always said that have a threesome was a lifelong fantasy of his and I have to admit, it does sound like alot of fun.

My issue is that we have discussed this and I have told him that I am very open to the whole experience, but there is one line that I will not cross. I don't want to, nor do I want my husband having intercourse with anyone but each other. Everything else is fair game.

He has a real problem with that and thinks that I am not being fair by putting that restriction on him and has nixed the whole experience. We both have different views on intercourse. I feel that I only want that experience shared between us, he feels that intercourse is just that, fucking. No big deal. I understand his viewpoint, but still strongly feel the same about intercourse that it is for us only.

Help! This is something that could be fun for the both of us!

Thanks for listening,
Chickster

12-12-2003, 01:26 PM	#1 (permalink)
chickster Registered Join Date: Dec 2003 Posts: 5 Location: Indiana Status: Couple	Husband doesn't agree with my boundaries Hi all! Just subscribed to the board and I must say that there is a lot of useful information here. My husband and I are interested in playing with others and are very new to this whole lifestyle. He always said that have a threesome was a lifelong fantasy of his and I have to admit, it does sound like alot of fun. My issue is that we have discussed this and I have told him that I am very open to the whole experience, but there is one line that I will not cross. I don't want to, nor do I want my husband having intercourse with anyone but each other. Everything else is fair game. He has a real problem with that and thinks that I am not being fair by putting that restriction on him and has nixed the whole experience. We both have different views on intercourse. I feel that I only want that experience shared between us, he feels that intercourse is just that, fucking. No big deal. I understand his viewpoint, but still strongly feel the same about intercourse that it is for us only. Help! This is something that could be fun for the both of us! Thanks for listening, Chickster