The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Would you like a MFM 3some that is NOT within a 4some?

**TNT** · 12-10-2003, 10:13 PM

This comes from another post that got me to thinking and wanting to elaborate a bit more on from a woman’s point of view, as well as, post a poll to see what the women really think.

It seems that a lot of people believe that there is no difference between having a MFM 3some within a 4some (MFMF) and just a MFM 3some (couple + single man).

They are right in one sense but having a 3some within a 4some is totally different than just a 3some.

Yes you can achieve any position you want in either scenario, but a 3some within a 4some always leaves one person left out. Yes, there is nothing wrong with this and we have done so on many occasions and have enjoyed it immensely but it does not have the same feel as a true 3some.

When we have a 3some within a 4some, I am always aware of the fact that the other woman is sitting there waiting her turn, I feel rushed and worried that she’s not having a good time, even when she assures me she is in no hurry and is fine with watching. I don’t mind being watched, but there are times when I really don’t want to be. I enjoy watching Ted in a 3some, but there again, the other woman is constantly asking me if I am fine and I have to reassure her to go ahead and enjoy herself.

In a 3some there is none of that pressure…I don’t have to feel rushed, I don’t have anyone watching and waiting, I don’t have to reassure someone I am fine and I get two men totally to myself for the whole night without any worries at all. And darn it, there are just times when all I want are two men without another woman being there.

Yes, good single men are as hard to come by as a single bi-female. But, they are out there and the good ones are no more likely to cause trouble for you than a couple.

I have discovered through talking to a lot of women that they would love to have a MFM 3some, but their husband won’t go for it. He only wants to have FMF or MFMF because there is another woman there for him to enjoy and won’t even consider a MFM. (I honestly think this has to do with an insecurity issue on the husband’s part, when it’s something that the wife would like to try but that is just my personal opinion.)

So my question is…Women if you had the chance for a MFM 3some that was NOT within a MFMF 4some would you want to try it?

NOTE: I am not knocking on 4somes as those are extremely fun but for this post, I’m focusing on 3somes.

Teresa

12-10-2003, 10:13 PM	#1 (permalink)
TNT Julie's Helper Join Date: Jul 2001 Posts: 5,003 Location: baker, fl, usa Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:tblonde312	Would you like a MFM 3some that is NOT within a 4some? This comes from another post that got me to thinking and wanting to elaborate a bit more on from a woman’s point of view, as well as, post a poll to see what the women really think. It seems that a lot of people believe that there is no difference between having a MFM 3some within a 4some (MFMF) and just a MFM 3some (couple + single man). They are right in one sense but having a 3some within a 4some is totally different than just a 3some. Yes you can achieve any position you want in either scenario, but a 3some within a 4some always leaves one person left out. Yes, there is nothing wrong with this and we have done so on many occasions and have enjoyed it immensely but it does not have the same feel as a true 3some. When we have a 3some within a 4some, I am always aware of the fact that the other woman is sitting there waiting her turn, I feel rushed and worried that she’s not having a good time, even when she assures me she is in no hurry and is fine with watching. I don’t mind being watched, but there are times when I really don’t want to be. I enjoy watching Ted in a 3some, but there again, the other woman is constantly asking me if I am fine and I have to reassure her to go ahead and enjoy herself. In a 3some there is none of that pressure…I don’t have to feel rushed, I don’t have anyone watching and waiting, I don’t have to reassure someone I am fine and I get two men totally to myself for the whole night without any worries at all. And darn it, there are just times when all I want are two men without another woman being there. Yes, good single men are as hard to come by as a single bi-female. But, they are out there and the good ones are no more likely to cause trouble for you than a couple. I have discovered through talking to a lot of women that they would love to have a MFM 3some, but their husband won’t go for it. He only wants to have FMF or MFMF because there is another woman there for him to enjoy and won’t even consider a MFM. (I honestly think this has to do with an insecurity issue on the husband’s part, when it’s something that the wife would like to try but that is just my personal opinion.) So my question is…Women if you had the chance for a MFM 3some that was NOT within a MFMF 4some would you want to try it? NOTE: I am not knocking on 4somes as those are extremely fun but for this post, I’m focusing on 3somes. Teresa
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