So you were both swinging as singles and then you got together and now that you are swinging as a couple he doesn't want other men playing with you, but still wants to be able to play with other women? Did I get that right?
I think this is a common problem with single guys. It's all fun when they are single, but when they become part of a couple they can't really handle seeing their partner with other people. They didn't prepare for what was on the other side.
It sounds like you need to sit down and actually talk with him about what he wants/ can handle and decide if swinging is something you both want to continue to persue together. To me it doesn't sound like he can handle swinging as a couple.
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