>shy penis in a swinging atmosphere...
>make him down and doesn't let him enjoy
performance anxiety
is common
and affects most
(not all!!! some folks're sooooooo stuck up They know They're Perfect!!! and They never do wrong!!!)
people at various times throughout life. related problems can be brief, isolated and inconsequential (see footnote 1A)... or major problems can result and complications can be chronic and disenabling. a (wide)variety of social, professional, and sexual disorders
can result from performance anxiety
and erectile incompetence is commonly observed.
>any other suggestions? Any tricks that really work for you?
here y'go:
make y'rselves happy and healthy in alllllllll respects. eliminate allllll y'r problems and worries... focus on how much you really mean to each other. fall in love
again. be alllll happy, sexy, seductive... let your passion grow... awaken the kundalini... get all horney... and enjoy allllll the joy and excitement of a satisfying love life. fuck like bunnies. get into it. do it all. have fun. enjoy great sex.
love each other
and devote yourselves to
a rich and satisfying love life.
arrange to meet up with some folks... let 'em know y're (relatively) new to and inexperienced with
shared intimacies.
let it be known
that intercourse is not immediately expected
and
develop a relationship in which erections are not strictly required.
let it be known that erections are welcomed, they're (thoroughly!)enjoyed,
they're worshipped...
but they're not required.
have a good time. be sexy. share passion. share emotion. care for each other. be erotic. touch one another. become familiar. develop relationships and engage in exciting activities.
explore allllllll the erogenous zones... cultivate intimacy,
worship your shared sexuality...
but don't expect
intercourse...
until
he's ready.
do alllllll those things that sexy folks do together... without prejudice and or expectation... and he'll do okay.
bring him along slowly... gradually desensitize him... and
enjoy the
fruits of your loving and attentive
labor(s).
best wishes.
L
footnote1A:
regarding results that are brief, isolated, and inconsequential, i am reminded of ninth grade spring baseball season. i couldn't hit a curve ball. i struck out many times. it got to the point that i was soooooo freaked out about curve balls and striking out, i'd strike out. anxiety made it impossible for me to bat confidently. my average suffered.
an attentive coach recognized the situation and threw me thousands of curve balls, fast balls, sliders, and change ups... which helped to build my confidence and improved my hitting average the following year.
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