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Originally posted by NorCal Nites
Most people simply don't think about the consequences of oral sex. Oral is great, but if you're doing it without protection, and then having protected sex, you're just fooling yourself. |
Good post.
I know one woman who used to swing, but mostly were into group sex/gangbangs who wasn't fooling herself.
Her name is Catherine Millet. She wrote her autobigraphy where she said one day when she was young, a friend sent her a letter informing her that he had the clap and said everyone in their "circle" probably has it too. They all did.
Ms. Millet said from her book, "The clap had been my baptism; for many years after, I lived in mortal fear of that scissoring pain, even though it struck me as being nothng more than a distinguishing sign, the shared fate of those who fuck a lot."
She knew very well the consequences of practicing unsafe sex, and even embraced STDs as some sort of badge of honor for sexually liberated people.
I think stats aren't accurate about the likelihood of getting an STD by engaging in unprotected oral sex because most people would never admit it. How many people have ever admitted to getting an STD, even online?
I appreciate Catherine for being so open and honest with herself.