Hey, Walrus!
You play Euchre? I learned the game from a Canadian guy years ago and taught my wife when we met. We've managed to teach a few couples but it's easier to find swing partners than Euchre players here in the wilds of Oklahoma. Bridge players cannot learn to play Euchre! If y'all are ever out this way, stop by for a game.
And Lisa? Get Matt some of the little blue pills. Have him eat one about half an hour before play begins. I think most of us men have had this problem, which never arises (or fails to, I guess) when I'm with my wife.
My theory is that swinging is often begun without the usual courtship rites, which are very erotic to me. Add that to the natural nervousness and it's not surprising that it happens.
Keep an extra blue pill available for the guy you're playing with and don't hesitate to give it to him if he has the problem. Then give him the nickname, "Marathon Cock." He'll deserve it.
Husband of Alura