[MattLisa]

I think everyone knows what I mean here... and I was wondering if anyone had any more tips to help a male with a shy penis in a swinging atmosphere...

I am always supportive, Never pushy to him about it (I always let him know I understand and still had a great time), will assist him however he wants (trying to help him rise to the occasion with oral or talking dirty or hands on assistance). I also do my utmost to not let whom we are playing with know there is a problem if I can because I know it would make it worse.

We really do have an awesome time without that aspect, I always help him out afterwards when we're alone, and I'm not worried about it for my sake (like I said we still have a lot of fun. His hands and tongue are very talented as well).

I'm concerned because it really make him down and doesn't let him enjoy his time with our friends. I want him to be just as happy and comfortable with our other playmates as I am.

I've also let him have a room alone with our female friends and he still has problems... Sometimes even more problems than when I'm there to help (hey I know what he likes).

Does anyone have any other suggestions? Any tricks that really work for you? Even if anyone has had any experience with medication (herbal, perscription, ect) that was positive or negitive about this?

My main goal is to allow him to have a good time and not be so focused on the part that isn't working (which I'm sure makes it work even less), so if anyone knows how to help him even have more fun *even* IF he can't get everything up I would love that too.

Thanks ahead of time!