In the club that we have set up in Northern California, the last question on the membership form asks for a small blurb on you and your partner's experience in "the lifestyle". (btw... is there a better term out there for this?!)
If a couple or single female has no experience, rather than emailing them with their membership info, we will personally call them and talk them through some of the "rules" (or non-rules as some may feel). This lets them know that they are CARED FOR and that they can stop ANYTHING at any point in time, for ANY reason.
Other clubs in our area seem to be a freaking free-for-all, in which the "owners" haven't even been in the lifestyle a year and feel that it's their RIGHT to grope and molest members. This is one of the number one reasons that we branched off to our own club. It's just ridiculous what some people think that they can do, just because they're "swingers".
HRUMPH.
