My point was that all you ever see frome the media etc are the people that you wouldn't want to even be in the same room with. We are not looking for perfect people, just at least average. This brings up some more questions...
Why are most "older" over 40?
Why are there so many strange people into it?
When people say they are disease free, how do you trust them?
When doing oral do most people use protection?
To me oral using a condom etc would ruin it. I know about the STD thing.
Thanx