I have to agree with parts of the above posts.
All of this is MY OPINION:
The people that you see on Real Sex are VERY OPEN people, who don't care if millions of HBO viewers see them. Usually, it is going to be the swingers that have been in the lifestyle for many years. You just aren't going to find a young newbie on that show...or any show, for that matter.
I have yet to see "perfection" in any swinger's event or club we have attended. It is DEFINATELY a PTA meeting and you are going to find many many more natural, lumpy, slightly overweight, saggy bodies than hardbodies. Not to say that hardbodies don't exist, because they do...although...*I* haven't seen any yet.
What I have seen is very few under 40 year old couples, even fewer under 30 year old couples. Unfortunately, usually the gal is very pretty but the guy is not. That is a MAJOR stumbling block for us. Hubby will find a few ladies that he's interested in talking to and maybe getting to know better but their husband is really ugly. And we have agreed that neither one of us will have sex with a person that we don't find attractive in some way or another just because our partner is attracted to one half.
This may be just MY experience. Your's may be different.
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