Swinging isn't about the Hefner mansion parties. (thank gawd) The first 'swinger' club I attended.. I walked into a sports bar and thought 'OMG..it's a PTA meeting!!!'
If you think you're all that and a bag of chips, and you're looking for the same, this probably won't work for you.
I can count on one hand the number of people I've met who represent sleazy swinging..toupees, hookers on their arm, white belts and shoes.
Otherwise..they are for the most part, people who are open to being sexually non monogamous, and exploring. Heavy men, women, old, young, once you're in it doesn't seem to matter too much. To many of us, anyway
