Ill be nice...lol
There are normal average looking people in swinging. I am 5'6" 120lbs and people say i am attractive and hubby is 6'4" and sexy and the couple we play with are about the same. WE are both educated in our late 30's and "normal"...lol. They are out there ya just gotta look. As for on tv well they always give swingers a bad wrap...either we are crazy, sex craved lunies, even portraid as perverts. so dont go by what you see on tv. There are alot of average types out there and personally everyone has a different idea of what is sexy so....
Just gotta look until you find what your idea of sexy is. As we say never take one for the team so if you arent both attracted to the ones ya see look more. And know that not everyone is who they say they are you may run into some that are weird or strange just chalk it up to learning!!
my 2 cents for today and best of luck!
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