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L&K · 08-31-2002, 04:53 PM

Frankly i dont think any question on here should catch flak , that is what the
board is for , to some one that question what ever it may be is a real isue .

Now Kissing , i dont have the problem with my wife does . With our first couple , S did not enjoy her self , a very pushy SOB that was clever to boot , But the only real problem she had as far as me and the other lady was kissing .

I personally have no interest in drop your pants lets fuck . Its cold and not worth your time .

I need to have a little intimacy with any lady before there is going to be any sex . It is still somthing we are working on , her reaction was not radical and being new it was not a question
that had come up . What is the answer ! you have to do what you are comfortable with as a couple . For us seems it will be , kiss but dont dwell on kissing , For S and my self kissing is a long part of love making , all through the night untill some body falls to sleep , with a partner other then S , it will be part of our night but not a continuous event as S and i do . its called a compromise i guess . [kiss]

08-31-2002, 04:53 PM	#36 (permalink)
L&K Join Date: Jul 2002 Posts: 197 Location: michigan Status: couple	Frankly i dont think any question on here should catch flak , that is what the board is for , to some one that question what ever it may be is a real isue . Now Kissing , i dont have the problem with my wife does . With our first couple , S did not enjoy her self , a very pushy SOB that was clever to boot , But the only real problem she had as far as me and the other lady was kissing . I personally have no interest in drop your pants lets fuck . Its cold and not worth your time . I need to have a little intimacy with any lady before there is going to be any sex . It is still somthing we are working on , her reaction was not radical and being new it was not a question that had come up . What is the answer ! you have to do what you are comfortable with as a couple . For us seems it will be , kiss but dont dwell on kissing , For S and my self kissing is a long part of love making , all through the night untill some body falls to sleep , with a partner other then S , it will be part of our night but not a continuous event as S and i do . its called a compromise i guess .