I have kind of kept out of this subject because I don't have a husband/SO so there are no *rules* for me to enter into with such. I do respect a couple's rules when with them and if they are a *no kissing* couple, then it's no kissing. Tho I will have to admit that very often that no kissing rule is broken for the female and there is kissing between myself and her.

Apparently that's different than her kissing a male or her husband/SO kissing a woman.
Personally I find kissing very erotic and something that *occurs* naturally and at times have found it very difficult to not kiss tho I always keep in mind the *rules* and my respect to the couple and their rules as first and foremost. And yes, there are many many other things one can do with their mouth. I do have two swinger couple friends who have a no kissing rule between them but after several years of close friendship, they have lifted that rule when with me.

But it's taken many years of friendship and trust to get to that point and I'm quite honored that they both feel comfortable enough with me to open up something that has been very private and personal between them.
VOTE FOR JULIE!!
Quin
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