J and I have never had an issue about kissing within the lifestyle. For us it's an important part of foreplay while leading up to penetration with others. Having said that, we'd never refuse to swing with anyone who won't allow kissing, much less ridicule them for it. Trying to remember NOT to kiss them in the heat of the moment, however, might take a bit of practise.
We all have our own individual pecadillos when being intimate with other couples. I've posted here before that I've had occasional feelings of mild jealousy when J and the other guy engage in platonic touching, such as touching each other's arm's during conversation to emphasis a point being made. I've also watched her locked together with the same guy in headboard-slamming intercourse, both howling like banshees. No jealousy on my part whatsoever. Funny how the mind works, eh?
Dan |