We can relate to Skeghed's rule, and we do not allow kissing in the majority of our encounter's. Kissing is a more personal and emotional act, something shared between two people who have more then a sexual relationship.
If we have an encounter with another, we keep the kissing out, along with a couple of other "actions" we feel are to be shared with only someone special. If we continue in a relationship with the others on a longer term basis, then we are more open to allowing kissing, as the relationship grows from sexual attraction to more of a friendship and companion type relationship.
As far as the "slamming" on others for there opinions or rules in the lifestyle, the only rule we have found to be solid amoung the other swingers we have met is "No Means No"...the rest of the rules is set by the couples and individuals involved in each seperate encounter, and to a level that they feel is comfortable to them respectivly. |