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Originally posted by Sparkysweet
Being a newbie, the Strip Club we went to, was a great safe way to see how I would react to someone being sexual with my husband and I ended up knowing how I would respond to a Woman being sexual with me...
I was shocked, and extremely jealous much to my surprise...
I was further shocked to find this extremely erotic and sensual. I have never been attracted to a woman sexually, but it opened sexual, erotic sensations I had not experienced before. |
Sparky,
Great advice for a couple new to swinging. Strip clubs weren't quite as comfortable and well accepted when we started out in swinging about a dozen years ago... you still had to go to the really seedy side of town and the places were filled with bikers for the most part. Now that they are an accepted entertainment option, it is a lot safer and much more pleasant to visit.
Your comment about being jealous when you first saw your husband getting the lap dance isn't really odd at all. I would think that pretty much every woman in here can attest to feeling at least a little jealous, if not a lot, the first time they saw their husband or partner with another woman. The way you went about it, in a strip club, was an awful lot safer than how most of us go about it... with actual swinging being the first time I saw Jerry with another woman.
And I think that most women would also agree that they were pretty shocked when they first found out that another woman could make them aroused and get them horny... I know that I was totally shocked at first! The first time I did bi, Jerry had a friend of his from his Air Force days come to visit for about 5 or 6 days. Each day that she was there, plus most nights, she did something sexual to me. And that's how it was for the first 3 days - she would do something sexual to me while I would just lay back and appreciate it. It took me until the 4th day... and Jerry telling me that this would be the best and safest opportunity I would ever have to reciprocate... for me to actually do something to her. I don't know if you have actually taken the step to do something sexual with another woman, but my advice is, now that you know from your feelings at the strip club, by all means, act on your desires! The only question you'll have after you actually do it is "Why did I wait so long?"
Liz