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windsor4fun2 · 11-24-2003, 06:06 PM

I agree, GREAT post EBF.

As far as research goes we didn't do any before our first experience which was a MFM. But that was 12-13 years ago and way before we had a computer and internet access. However we had talk a LOT about our interests and what we wanted etc. I think knowing yourselves and you desires etc. is the most important thing.
While we have made mistakes along the way I honestly don't think we would have made any fewer if we had done a lot of research. Just different ones

I believe Mr hmr mentioned over researching to the point you never get to actual swinging. With the amount of information available it is a definite possibility. Over analyzing swinging (or anything) and everything that goes with it can take the fun out of it. As EBF said it shouldn't be work.

Jesse

11-24-2003, 06:06 PM	#21 (permalink)
windsor4fun2 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2003 Posts: 371 Location: Windsor, Ontario Status: M half of Couple	I agree, GREAT post EBF. As far as research goes we didn't do any before our first experience which was a MFM. But that was 12-13 years ago and way before we had a computer and internet access. However we had talk a LOT about our interests and what we wanted etc. I think knowing yourselves and you desires etc. is the most important thing. While we have made mistakes along the way I honestly don't think we would have made any fewer if we had done a lot of research. Just different ones I believe Mr hmr mentioned over researching to the point you never get to actual swinging. With the amount of information available it is a definite possibility. Over analyzing swinging (or anything) and everything that goes with it can take the fun out of it. As EBF said it shouldn't be work. Jesse