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1. Before your first club and/or play date experience, did you and your SO discuss swinging in any detail? Mind sharing some of the discussion material?
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Yes, we discussed our fantasies (MMF, FF, MFF, group sex) and then started discussing whether we were on the same page with wanting to make the fantasy a reality. Once we knew we were, we set abot together to find out how. Imagine our happy surprise when we bumped into this fun world of swinging that we didn't know about before.
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2. Before the club and/or play date, did you do any online research? Other type of research? Did you have a relatively accurate concept of what swinging was and what it was about?
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Yes, we definitely did our homework. We were lucky, to have this site as well as others to read, look at, and learn some things from. It was/is such a help to have a place to post questions, or read questions we were having and others posted about, and read everyone's replies. Those swinging term dictionaries were a big help as well.
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3. Before the club, etc., did you establish your personal boundaries? (and yes, we know they change with experience, but did you have some boundaries established going in?
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Yes! We not only had set boundaries, but we had worked out signals, so we could tell what the other person wanted, needed, or was feeling while conversing with others.
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4. Did any of ya'll just walk into a club or social or other type of situation feeling totally unaware of what swinging was about?
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No.
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5. Any other information you would care to share?
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We both think having signals is a great tool in this lifestyle.
Mare
