yes BUT.. is there a quorum?
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That these singles participate in the lifestyle with us makes them "swingers" doesn't it? Or do they remain "singles" who got laid? Does it really matter?
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Yes.. this is my question exactly. Does it matter? it seems it doesn't so WHY should they toss out 'I'm a 'swingle' into the mix... hell...we can't even effectively define what a swinger is.. never mind the periphery of singles. And ultimately... why should we since swinging can't even be defined.
Biloxicple said there were 'rules'... I challenge those rules. Read all the horror stories of meetings gone wrong. Of people not respecting boundaries, which means No doesn't mean No. Of which there is no 'courtesy'. We're coming to see there's a lot of myth and not much truth to the stated 'rules'.