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yawanna · 11-23-2003, 08:44 PM

BettyAnn you rock my world

What a wonderful analogy!

I understand the playing field and rules of the game for that day

We are seriously just having many doubts about just what the 'game' is... football, baseball, rec sex, swinging whatever the hell THAT might be

There ARE posted rules.....but just like the 'don't spit on the rink' signs...not many seem to follow them. Like someone else posted it's a couples world and singles just visit, then we have singles saying they are swingers just like couples say they are...whether they are active or not at the moment, they are still swingers.

Then we get blasts for even challenging where a single may participate and what jersey might they wear, if any.

I'd love a Roberts Rules of Order, or at least that NASCA for example has set out that swinging is couples, singles are welcome as participants, and this is adhered to rather than some single saying the rules aren't real, or couples challenging what I've read is swinging.

Make it all up as we go along? Then it's not a community with rules or base understanding. At least religious folks have the 10 commandements

We have nada when everything is up for individual interpretation and there is no benchmark.

11-23-2003, 08:44 PM	#11 (permalink)
yawanna Has Left the Building Join Date: Jul 2003 Posts: 1,176 Location: Canada Status: married female	BettyAnn you rock my world What a wonderful analogy! I understand the playing field and rules of the game for that day We are seriously just having many doubts about just what the 'game' is... football, baseball, rec sex, swinging whatever the hell THAT might be There ARE posted rules.....but just like the 'don't spit on the rink' signs...not many seem to follow them. Like someone else posted it's a couples world and singles just visit, then we have singles saying they are swingers just like couples say they are...whether they are active or not at the moment, they are still swingers. Then we get blasts for even challenging where a single may participate and what jersey might they wear, if any. I'd love a Roberts Rules of Order, or at least that NASCA for example has set out that swinging is couples, singles are welcome as participants, and this is adhered to rather than some single saying the rules aren't real, or couples challenging what I've read is swinging. Make it all up as we go along? Then it's not a community with rules or base understanding. At least religious folks have the 10 commandements We have nada when everything is up for individual interpretation and there is no benchmark.