This is probably one of the most common problems faced by men new to swinging (and sometimes by experienced swingers.)
There are numerous ways to deal with the problem, however, the most important thing is knowing that it is perfectly normal.
If I were you (and I was once), I wouldn't worry about it. As long as you don't have impotency problems in your normal sex life it's just a simple case of "stage fright" and it will pass as you become more comfortable having sex with a woman other than your wife.
Good luck and keep trying! It's worth it!
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