It really is a great topic though!
My husband is a
musician who plays woodwinds (particularly flute). He has a friend that is also a musician that plays guitar with him. They share a common profession in that they both play music -- they differ very much though since my husband plays jazz and his friend plays rock. They don't even seem to speak the same language.
Using the analogy of Christians -- all Christians do not accept the same standards and yet they do share certain commonalities that form the base of "what it is to be Christian" -- among these is a belief that there is/was a Christ.
In that sense then -- what belief forms the universal basis of
swingdom ?
Is it recreational sex? Maybe, but that aspect is shared with the group that calls themself
slut .
Is it recreational sex when a partner to the act is married? Maybe, but that definition also applies to
cheater, adultress, etc...
Is it "recreational sex involving one or both members of a couple (married or not) - with full consent of both members of the domestic partnership." hmmmmmm If so, then all other descriptors (such as MFM, FMF, soft-swap) become nothing more than subsets of the one "swinger" set.
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so how does one know they are joining a bowling league and not the cast of Cats?
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Cats! Cats! Cats! I wanna be in Cats!!!!! I wanna play Demeter! Nope! no bowling league for me -- gimme a cat costume any day....
