1. Before your first club and/or play date experience, did you and your SO discuss swinging in any detail? Mind sharing some of the discussion material?
Not much detail, more of a "let's go and see what it is all about"
2. Before the club and/or play date, did you do any online research? Other type of research? Did you have a relatively accurate concept of what swinging was and what it was about?
Had a bit of an idea, but back in those days real info was hard to find.
3. Before the club, etc., did you establish your personal boundaries? (and yes, we know they change with experience, but did you have some boundaries established going in?
About the only one we had was using condoms, other than that not much.
4. Did any of ya'll just walk into a club or social or other type of situation feeling totally unaware of what swinging was about?
Yes to the first part and kinda to the second
5. Any other information you would care to share?
Buy a hottub, saves a lot of money in the long run.
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