The only real reason I can see for going to a strip club as an early step in swinging is just to see each other's reactions to the nudity/ lap dances / etc.
Especially if there is
a) fear that she might be jealous of you getting attention from another woman (get a lap dance in front of her and see how she reacts).
b) possible interest on her part towards other women (have her get a lap dance and see how she likes it).
I've seen some posts where people have the idea that they can go to a strip club and take a stripper home. That's about as far from the truth as things come. The girls are there to make money and while they may see overly friendly to you, chances are they just want your money. |