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Originally posted by ionsawmill
...but he said this within the first few minutes of our first chat.
Interesting way of looking at it. I automatically assumed that, since he mentioned his sexual preferences in his first email, that it was important to him. |
I was under the impression you had chatted/e-mailed with him several times before the subject came up, based on your first post. Nonetheless, we have learned here that placing any hint of bi-sexuality on a profile, for men, can greatly limit responses.
It could have been a couple of different things for him...the bi issue on the profile, possibly, or maybe even the situation you have addressed so well in Kain's thread - a move on the continuum. Along the lines of...this isn't anything I've ever really considered, but it may be something worth thinking about and/or trying with someone I've grown comfortable with.
My first threesome experience...if it had not occurred the way it did...unexpectedly and with people I was 100% comfortable with, I doubt I would have ever even thought of it, much less considered it. Had the suggestion come from anyone that I wasn't so comfortable, or even at a different time in my life, I'm certain my immediate response would have been something along the lines of,
"Have you completely lost your freakin' minds!!" Each point on that continuum gives us the opportunity to take another step forward or backwards.
- EBF