Say, ionsawmill? Is it possible that after chatting with you...getting to know you a bit and feeling comfortable with you...that he decided he might be interested in trying it? I don't know...I'm kind of thinking that we all have preconceived ideas about things (from who knows where!), but as we learn more we change our attitudes and opinions.
I mean...just look at the evolution of swinging for most of us. We grow up thinking we should settle down, get married, live monogamously forever...then the idea is planted somewhere. We begin to read a little, talk a little...maybe go to a club "just to see what it's like,"....and for some of us, over a period of time, we decide swinging is something we might enjoy.
I don't know...just a thought that occurred in the early morning hours.
- EBF