Here's our perspective (and we'll admit that we are far from normal!). Our definition of bisexual can be found in Webster. " Having a sexual interest in members of both sexes" We state that we are bisexual in all of our ads and on line profiles. We also state that we are looking for bi playmates. We are contacted frequently by "straight" singles. (mostly men). It's amazing how many of them turn bi or bi curious as soon as we tell them that we aren't interested in meeting "straight" people. (Again, all of our ads and profiles say this) When looking for people to play with, we look for those that have a sexual interest in both of us. Even though it involves others, it is still very much an "us" thing. Our read on the suddenly curious guys, is that they are changing their story just for an opportunity to sleep with someone's wife. We know that isn't true of all, but we haven't had many positive experiences with the few that we have met. We certainly aren't interested in men or women that will "let us" perform for them (and you wouldn't believe how many people actually say that to us!).
We understand the statement in a previous post, that single guys have it tough, and are trying not to limit their chances. However, we also feel that anytime someone says something just to up their chances of getting laid, regardless of their sex or maritial status: It is deceiving, and anyone changing their story, to "match up" is dishonest. Not the kind of people we want to play with.
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