I have vacillated between being "straight" and "bi-curious"... I think "hetero-flexible" would be closer to what I am... though I don't know. How is one to know they're bi or straight unless they have tried something. Am I bi-curious? Maybe... I have fantasies involving men... do I seek them out? no... Am I comfortable with other men in the room looking at me and maybe even touching me? ... yes. Do I find men attractive? not normally... would I get off on a guy sucking my cock? maybe.. never happened... so, how should I know.
If some guy offered, I might say yes... depends on the guy. If I said I was bi-curious, that would imply that I *too* would have interest in sucking them off... without having a full discourse on what exactly turns someone on or off... it's hard to tell.
I would take it with a grain of salt. If you would get off sucking him and he likes you doing it, then great. I understand where you're coming from... I don't get off on having sex with a woman if they're laying back thinking about doing the dishes.. I would hardly think this to be the case if you are in a sexually charged environment.
Labels offered on sites are pretty broad... I have a choice of 'straight', 'bi-curious', 'bisexual' and 'gay'... what if I fall into none of those... I mean, should I just forgo it all? What if I like the idea of being with a bi-sexual guy just because the opportunity to flirt with someone else is a turn on...
Who knows... go as far as you want to go and if you don't want to do something, then don't. If you want someone to "specifically" try out your "bi" side, then state that up front. If it's not their cup of tea... then move on.
Just some random thoughts I have on the topic...
-Punk
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