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| On the other hand, if he is bi-curious or bisexual and was just hiding it to improve his chances at finding swing partners, then I feel obligated not to indulge him, lest he continue his subterfuge. |
I don't think I'd think of this as subterfuge/deception. As you know from reading the board single males have to be very careful about what they say and how they approach couples. Most likely, if he is bi or bi-curious he feels that would simply be an extra liability. Even couples "suffer" frrom the stigma of bi-maleism. (Is that a word? :p )
I imagine he controls those tendencies with couples unless they make the first move. Why don't you ask him? I certainly wouldn't deny myself the pleasure simply to spite him.
