 Is He Straight or Bi-Curious? — Who knows?
Recently, we were contacted by a straight single male in our area. Everything looks promising and we'll probably have a "meet & greet" soon over drinks and dinner, since we've chatted with him several times online. He seems to have similar interests and a genuine need for discretion, as he is a teacher.
As many of you know from my posts on this board, I am a bi-curious male. I advertise this in our ads, on our profiles, on the board and on our personal website. It's even in the little blurb to the left of our posts!
While chatting one night, he asked what we were looking for as swingers; what were our fantasies. I told him of my wife's interest in double-penetration. I realized from his original email that he was straight, so I told him that, though it didn't interest him, I was interested in giving another guy oral sex. His response was basically "we might be able to work something out.".
This left me both confused and a little bit miffed. If he is straight, then what he is suggesting is that I can perform oral sex for him while he "lies back and thinks of England". On the other hand, if he is bi-curious or bisexual and was just hiding it to improve his chances at finding swing partners, then I feel obligated not to indulge him, lest he continue his subterfuge. I'm perfectly comfortable swinging straight with him and just setting aside the bisexuality issue, but I don't think I'm comfortable having bi-sex with this guy.
It's a puzzle within an enigma, wrapped in a conundrum.
Anyone else have a different take on the situation?
Tainted Homily
Impromtu Bisexual Activist
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