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My boobs are small and my butt is big...
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JLo!!!!
I asked male staff once.. 'just what IS it about J Lo???' and they said 'duh...her BUTT!!'
Men like that bouncy jiggly thang
I have stretch marks, I had a kid. I also had a huge growth spurt at age 16 that produced OY hips!!!
I'm heavier than I normally am, and it's temporary (shut UP EBF lol) and I struggle, not too successfully, to walk into clubs or house parties with all my confidence and chutzpah. It ain't easy.
But, in my heart of hearts, I know that the people we know who swing really truly don't look at the package so much as the person....really. One man told my husband he wanted to bang me more because of my brain and intellect...turned him on like you can't imagine!
I think we just have to be ourselves and accept who we are at any given time. And I wonder about those women with fake boobies and them reading all the deragatory comments..they aren't real....anyone can tell..and some boob jobs are worse than others, but still...they paid thousands of dollars for fake boobies to be more sexually alluring and I have YET to read anywhere that fake boobies are desired.
However, I DO read more often that men like curves and older women and experience and demeanour and sexually evocative women - those without benefit of Dupont.
We have gone to house parties and on premise events and just watched... consider doing this because it's a real learning experience about reality versus mainstream porn and the Pamela Anderson's. I can elaborate about our experiences if you like or it would help? Bottom line it's like many here say... it's who you ARE and your pesonality and sexuality, no matter what your body size or condition, that matters in this community.