The Swingers Board - View Single Post - How many couples do both same room and separate room?

leftcoastcouple · 11-08-2003, 02:57 PM

Thanks, BradandJanet. Appreciate the help. With Julie's links included on the link you provided, I've got a starting point. Plus, stupid me had not yet tried a Boolean search, and now that I have, I've found even more useful threads.

You've also given me food for thought by suggesting it doesn't have to be an "either/or" proposition. As you say, each has its own elements of excitement to offer, and employing them at different times could offer variety and different sorts of fun.

Until now, as my wife and I have discussed this, I've been biased toward same room. But you reminded me, as I related in the "Green Eyed Monster" on the HELP board, how "not knowing" nearly drove me insane with lustful thoughts when my wife years ago spent the night on several occasions with a male friend of ours. The first night she did so may well have been the horniest 18 hours of my life, as the mix of jealousy, lust, and overwhelming curiosity had my mind running absolutely wild. Having that experience again simultaneously mixed with my own swapping encounter sounds like a whole lot of fun.

Ah, so much to think about. And all fun to think about, too!

11-08-2003, 02:57 PM	#18 (permalink)
leftcoastcouple She's a lurker; he's not Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 194 Location: Earthquake country Status: Married Couple (But mostly Mr.)	Thanks, BradandJanet. Appreciate the help. With Julie's links included on the link you provided, I've got a starting point. Plus, stupid me had not yet tried a Boolean search, and now that I have, I've found even more useful threads. You've also given me food for thought by suggesting it doesn't have to be an "either/or" proposition. As you say, each has its own elements of excitement to offer, and employing them at different times could offer variety and different sorts of fun. Until now, as my wife and I have discussed this, I've been biased toward same room. But you reminded me, as I related in the "Green Eyed Monster" on the HELP board, how "not knowing" nearly drove me insane with lustful thoughts when my wife years ago spent the night on several occasions with a male friend of ours. The first night she did so may well have been the horniest 18 hours of my life, as the mix of jealousy, lust, and overwhelming curiosity had my mind running absolutely wild. Having that experience again simultaneously mixed with my own swapping encounter sounds like a whole lot of fun. Ah, so much to think about. And all fun to think about, too!