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Originally posted by 2dreamyangels
I think there is something very special about a couple whose only need is to be with each other. When, if they have an open weekend, they were thinking of how they could spend it together....... |
Hello 2dreamyangels,
Just wanted to drop you a note, I too have searched all my life for what you spoke of, I saw this in my grandparents, their endless loves for eachother, the "stary eyes" when looking at eachother, it's been my dream for as long as I can remember. I had what you spoke of, if only for a short time, until swinging was mentioned.
I feel so bad for you , I feel your pain and wanted you to know that at one time or another we all give all we can, so your not alone, I too gave until it hurt, but it sounds to me like your husband is only out to score as much as he can without seeing the harm he's doing, your right hon, in your case, swinging IS taking away from your relationship and I pray things can work out for you, I tend to agree with the others, as I take their advice myself, counsiling is needed, or a sex threapest.
Best of luck, and fight for your man and the marriage you entered into.
Di & Ric