You may be saying the same thing, but let me be explicit about it...
Don't share the names of your reference without their permission. The couple you were with likely asked for discretion, which means you should get their approval first. You need to respect their confidentiality first and foremost, or can be most assured they won't be a reference for long!
[ 06-25-2002, 08:32 PM: Message edited by: blue_eyez ]