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Julie and Randie · 06-25-2002, 03:46 PM

So John, is what you are saying...don't bullshit?? I have a few suggestions to add..

Treat the couples with respect...especially the women! Remember that YOU are the outsider! Perhaps the husband fantasizes about his wife with another man..but she is still his wife! Also, do not EVER even hint that you want to meet her alone. We find this kind of behavior quite an insult.

Single males are quite frankly a dime a dozen...so you need to find something that will make you stand out. A sense of humor, honesty, and sensitivity will get you everywhere.

I highly recommend having, for lack of a better word, references. If you have met a few couples, and it has gone well, ask them if they might give you a "recommendation" to others...

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Julie and Randie Active Member Join Date: May 2002 Posts: 15 Location: Westminster, MD	So John, is what you are saying...don't bullshit?? I have a few suggestions to add.. Treat the couples with respect...especially the women! Remember that YOU are the outsider! Perhaps the husband fantasizes about his wife with another man..but she is still his wife! Also, do not EVER even hint that you want to meet her alone. We find this kind of behavior quite an insult. Single males are quite frankly a dime a dozen...so you need to find something that will make you stand out. A sense of humor, honesty, and sensitivity will get you everywhere. I highly recommend having, for lack of a better word, references. If you have met a few couples, and it has gone well, ask them if they might give you a "recommendation" to others... [ 06-25-2002, 03:47 PM: Message edited by: Julie and Randie ] __________________ You only go around once, why not have fun??