 We tend to like boys & girls our own age
We're both 43 and sure enough, the couples we are attracted to are in the 30-50 yr old range, and the closer they are to being in their early 40's, the more we like 'em.
It is not so much a matter of physical attraction as it is finding common ground to relate to each other.
We've come out to a very few close friends and associates that had already accepted us for who we are, rather than who they expect or want us to be.
We've asked them, "What do you think the first thing swingers talk about when they're getting acquainted?". "Wild exotic unbridled sex, duh!", is the usual naive answer.
Then we surprise them with this revelation: "No, we talk about our children first, THEN we talk about sex, if it even gets around to that".
But that's just us .... Mark'n'Liz in KCMO
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