I have read and re-read your post. What i see is that your husband is NOT a swinger!!! From what you say, I see a man that has a good game going of cheating as much as he can with your aproval!! Most swingers are in this together and if one is uncomfy will back off or get out ....no questions asked. his remark of "not being able to promise he will be faithful" Tells me right there HE IS A CHEATER ...walks like a duck, quacks like a duck......my answer to that would have been there is the door dont let it hit your ass on the way out!!
I know you love him and want to work this out..And i really do feel for you. But you really need to see things how they really are. If you want to save your marrage....stop swinging now! If he loves you and wants you to be happy he will work on your relationship....If he doesnt want to....well....quack quack
life is to short to be treated like a door mat.....
that is my 2 cents for the day! s
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