Ok only my opinion here but I feel that both parties have to agree on the lifestyle here. I understand what you are saying he seems to be spending more time with the lifestyle then with you and that would so not work for me. I also don't like the way he is using to keep you in line. I don't think a man should ever say hey we'll slow down a bit but I might not be faithful. I mean come on that's just not right that's not even slowing down! I think you guys need to sit down and discuss this further and you need to decide what you not him you really want and need.
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