You need to not make excuses for him and you NEED to tell him exactly how you feel.
When he attempts to make plans for next weekend, so "sorry honey but I've already made plans for us for this weekend, and it's going to be just YOU and ME".
Let him know that it's not an issue of you not feeling loved but an issue of you not feeling like he desires you anymore, that you feel he'd rather have sex with others than with you.
And if he refuses to listen, refuse to continue swinging.
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